They just don't.
When you got amazing memories about amazing moments, you just don't forget. People might say they're ok, they're fine.. and it might be true. Still, there's always that feeling that makes us remind of all of those sweet memories we have, and everyone says: when you look back, don't be sad 'cause it's over, smile cause it happened. Makes sense in our heads.. but not in our hearts.
Just because it's over, doesn't mean we forgot about it. Just beacuse we're hanging out with our friends, or getting drunk,or just distracted and apperently happy with something... once again, doesn't mean we forgot. Even if we make out with some really good looking guy/girl.. It just doesn't feel the same. It might be good, but It's just not the same.
How can people forget such good and pleasent moments, just beacuse... it's over? Our hearts don't have like an off button, that you push it and suddenly you don't feel anything anymore.
People may say you're better off, that it's okay and probably he/she didn't deserve you for any type of reason... we say "Yes, you're right I know!" but, some pain is still there, and we know it. It feels like you have to try it just once more, just another chance and it just might work this time! Even if it's not logical, even if we are 99% sure we're gonna end up hurting ourselves.. the heart commands.
And you know what? I think It's ok to be like that, as long as we don't mess with our dignity and values, as long as we respect ourselves while doing it, I guess it's fine!
Well.. but sometimes, and we gotta face reality, it's just not possible. And the hardest part I think, Is to accept that. Sometimes It's just not meant to be, and those memories, are just that.. memories.
We gotta know when and how to move on, rely on friends and make new amazing memories.
Memories, cause actually there's no such thing as the Present - "By the time I recognize this moment, This moment will be gone, But I will bend the light, pretend that it somehow lingered on" John Mayer.
