There are some ppl we like to call friends. Other ones, we use to call best friends.
Friends are those ppl who like us (usually), who like to be with us, who tell us some things about their lives, normally the happy moments they have, the things which are easy to talk about, fun to tell and fun to hear it.
They’re ppl who we can call if we want to, but if we don’t, it’s kind of the same thing. It’s fun to be around them, but… not for too long. It’s fun to talk with them, but not about everything. Ppl who are the kindest person on earth when talking to us, but… not that sweet when we’re not around.
They like us, but we’re not essential to them. They get worried about us, but… maybe they can’t abdicate of something of their own for us. They are actually nice… but not that great sometimes. Maybe they’d even say nice things to see us happy, but sometimes those things are not true, they’re not feeling it as they should, they just say to say it.
Friends… you know that kind of “friends” that you want to talk about something about yourself and all of the sudden; you’re hearing their whole life story? Instead of yours? Those friends you think you can count with them at any time, but… their lives are too important to do that?
Well… Best friends it’s not quite like that.
When you got a true best friend, they will love you no matter what, they won’t be embarrassed of doing ANYTHING around them, you’ll talk about your life story and they’ll hear it ‘till the end, even if they want to say something about themselves too.
They will accept you as you are, they will be there to catch you if you fall.
They will talk about you about every single thing and feel bad if they don’t, not just the fun-easy-nice-cool things to hear, but things that make you cry, things that’ll make you think about it, more than once.
They will criticize you, ‘cause they only just want the best for you.
They’ll get mad about you if they think you’re acting badly, if you’re doing something wrong or if you’re just acting really stupid (even if that makes you feel said, they’ll say it). Best friends don’t need you to talk sometimes; they know what’s wrong just by looking in your eyes, by hearing your voice different.
If needed to, they will abdicate of something of their own, just to see you smile, ‘cause that means something to them. They’ll share their lives with you and they’ll be by your side, even when you think you’re alone. They’ll support you if they think it’ll be good for you, if not, they won’t; ‘cause that’s just what they do, they care about us as if it was something about themselves.
Best friends, are the ones who you laugh on the top of your lounges, scream, shout, sing (even if it’s really bad singing),do the most incredible and stupid things, slap you if you need to wake up for life, being sweet if you’re sad, make you laugh when you’re crying, make you stand up for yourself, they give you strength, courage and confidence, they won’t let you down, ‘cause you just don’t wanna disappoint them at any poin… As a matter of fact, they’re like angels on Earth, they’re guides for you to be a better person every day, they’re just like family… and they’ll love you, just as if they were.
Thank you V, for being my best friend.
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